Saturday, 20 April 2013

Cycling As Meditation?

"Sorry Dad, that's not meditation."

One of my daughters is, I suppose, what you'd call a practicing Buddhist. She's spent the last 3 years working in a retreat up a mountain. I would never put that down. I've been there twice and it's an amazing place (www.ecodharma.com) with a very special aura and ethos. She's advised me to meditate to avoid or release myself from the unavoidable stresses of modern life.

When you're at the top of a mountain looking down on so called 'civilisation' 
meditation is far easier

"I already meditate," I told her. "I spend all day sometimes on my bike thinking as my legs follow a repetitive circular rhythm. It's so calming and I work out so many things that way."

"Sorry Dad, that's not meditation," she told me.

She said it in a kind way, and she followed it by saying that it was undoubtedly useful, but it was not meditation in the Buddhist sense of the practice. It was thinking about 'stuff' rather than your mind being full of nothing. Deep!

I've had a go at meditation in the formal Buddhist sense and I certainly know the difference now. It's a great feeling. If I tried to do that on my bike I'm sure I'd fall off, or ride straight into something. Not wise, I'd say. So on my bike I stick to my kind of meditation – that being 'thinking about stuff.'

So what kind of stuff do I think about. Well, let me say first that I'm talking mostly about long distance cycling. In my case that means about 80 miles a day on average (see my book 'Long Road, Hard Lessons' - link at the bottom) but it varies with the terrain and whether I'm on my own or with someone else. Personally I like to get into a rhythmic groove and just keep going. I don't stop much if I can help it. Very soon I'm zoned out. Don't try talking to me – the most you'll get is a grunt. My regular cycling friends get used to this. They laugh about how I just keep going – like an automaton. I don't feel pain, because I'm not there. I'm in my head, or back in my childhood, or somewhere in a planned future or something. Sometimes I sing too. I sing things that suit my pace and the terrain. Not always out loud – mostly it's in my head too. When I'm pushing hard uphill it's something slow but forceful like 'Police on my back' by The Clash or 'Hold Tight' byDave Dee, Dozy, Beaky, Mick & Titch. On calm flat sections with no rush it's 'I Will' by the Beatles and on a fast downhill it's probably 'Thunder Road' by Springsteen. And all the time I'm working through stuff. Hours of my legs going around and sorting out why it was I never managed to tell that girl at school in 1974 that I liked her, when the next property boom might happen, or why it was my parents had just laughed when I said I wanted to go to a drama school.

Monks cycling slowly to lunch in Laos. Proof that meditation is possible on a bike.

The thing about long distance cycling, is that you have plenty of time to pass and nothing much to do except look at scenery and keep your legs going around. Anything that stops you thinking about how much your bum hurts is good really. The thing about trying to sort this sort of stuff out at home is that you keep getting disturbed. Phones, doorbells, children, partners, sirens, car alarms, you name it. It's unavoidable unless you live out in the sticks and even then there's the phone. No the thing about long distance cycling is that you're busy doing something, but that something doesn't need any real thinking about. You can pretty much engage first gear and disengage the brain. You're free to let your mind wander, with no rude interruptions bar the odd cycle-hating motorist shouting 'wanker!' at you as they pass. It was an opportunity for relaxed thought that in centuries gone by men and women tilling fields or watching sheep all day long took for granted, but those days are gone. Sailing, walking and cycling have taken their place as the only way to get away from it all. I have no doubt that this is why mental illness and stress-related disease is so much more prevalent today. Do yourself a favour and get on your bike!

If you would like to read the bestselling travel book 'Long Road, Hard Lessons' by Mark Swain, you can find this along with his two collections of short stories on Amazon, Smashwords etc. 
In the UK his books can also be found in all Waterstones Bookstores.

Sunday, 24 February 2013

PRESS RELEASE


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For Immediate Release        ––        For Immediate Release


Father & son complete epic cycle-ride: 10,000 emotional miles from Ireland to Japan


Canterbury, UK – 24th February 2013

In England a 10-year-old boy, after only a day’s cycle ride, asks his father to cycle to Japan with him when he reaches 18.

Eight years later, Kent-based father and son Mark and Sam Swain (50 and 18), set off. After a torturous, nine-month journey – cycling 10,000 miles through emotional turmoil and physically grueling terrain – they reach Tokyo.

With the sport of cycling currently so negatively highlighted by appalling drug cheats, Sam’s dream expedition across Europe and Asia displays true heartfelt human experiences of both resilience and humour. Long Road, Hard Lessons is the true story captured from their journals, including the practicalities of cycling this staggering distance, as well as the bruises, breakdowns and emotional punctures they both encountered as they sorted out their thorny father-son relationship.

Physical challenges, border bureaucracy, health scares and traffic hazards were anticipated; what they had underestimated, however, were the conflicts they would face spending 24-hours-a-day together under such arduous conditions with an already tenuous bond.

On one level, a life-changing travel adventure, Mark and Sam’s story shares the psychological journey made in life by most parents and children. Daily conflict caused by the extreme pressures and long periods together, taught them things they had not expected to learn, and revealed how much a parent can learn from their child.  

Nicholas Roe, in The Telegraph, said, “If you want to understand the point of adventure and the way it can glue families together, listen to Mark Swain describing his hellish night of suffering half-way through an extraordinary 10,000-mile bike ride to Japan.”

Sam said, “I thought I was doing the trip for my dad’s benefit, but afterwards I discovered he’d thought he was doing it for me!”

Asked what the trip had taught him, Mark said, “Most of all, to strive for a future where we listen to the instinctive wisdom in our children. I’m listening now, Sam!”

– Ends –

Notes to Editors:

If you require any images from the trip, of the writers or of the book cover, or if you have questions about the contents or background to the book, Mark Swain is happy to be contacted personally at:
mark.swain58@gmail.com      Tel: +44 1227 760691    Mobile: +44 7930 542441

Mark and Sam Swain have appeared on BBC Breakfast TV. Susanna Reid commented, “A really inspiring story. It brings tears to my eyes.”
Their story was featured in The Telegraph, the Guardian and the Daily Mail, as well as The Times of India, The Japan Times, The Daily Yomuiri, The Irish Mirror, plus other national and international publications and on-line. A number of public talks have been given by the authors and more are planned.

Mark Swain is also the author of the award-winning short story ‘Special Treatment’ (Kinglake Modern Short Story Prize 2010) and a later book of short stories ‘Special Treatment and Other Stories’.

Long Road, Hard Lessons is available in the UK to booksellers via the wholesaler Gardners Books, and retail from all Waterstones stores. Internationally, it is available from Amazon.

You might like to look at the author's book blog for the latest information and comments:  http://longroadhardlessons.blogspot.com

You can contact the publisher at: admin@tinderboxpublishing.com

Long Road, Hard Lessons – ISBN 978-0-9572002-0-3
Paperback with 25 colour plates and 7 maps
Published by Tinderbox Publishing Ltd, UK
Retails in the UK at £9.99

Kindle e-book – ISBN 978-0-9572002-1-0
(30 colour photographs + 7 maps)
Available from Amazon worldwide. 
Retails at US$3.98 on  www.amazon.com
Retails at £2.48 on  www.amazon.co.uk


Friday, 8 February 2013

Male Kissing Takes Off in UK Micropubs

Men kissing in pubs, whatever next!?

Micropubs are the most traditional and, some would say, conservative of British institutions – Strictly no mobile phones allowed, no food, no music,  and they only serve real ales straight from the barrel (no pumps). They don't serve lager! One of the best of these new establishments is 'The Just Reproach' in Deal, Kent. What came as a surprise to the locals there today, was the spectre of two men kissing each other.

To be clear, this was not an amorous act. One of the two was a Frenchman and the other an English author, writer of the travel / father-son psychology book 'Long Road, Hard Lessons'. But it still caused quite a stir. Fortunately landlord Mark Robson saw the funny side.

"It's not how you would expect to see two men greet each other in my pub, and to be honest I can't see it catching on as a Micropub tradition," he said. "Martyn Hillier, might have something to say about it if it happened in his place!"

Martyn Hillier is the infamous landlord of The Butcher's Arms in nearby Herne village. He opened the first ever Micropub a number of years ago (2005 I think). He's quite a character and is known as something of a determined traditionalist.

Needless to say the beer and the atmosphere in the above mentioned establishments is first rate. Check out the websites:

www.thejustreproach.co.uk
www.micropub.co.uk

Wednesday, 23 January 2013

Comments Received On The Cycle Book


Current Amazon rating for the book is:  5 Stars   Amazon Bestseller Rank: #17 in Kindle Store > Books > Nonfiction > Parenting & Families > Family Relationships

THE REVIEWS
N.B. Not all are flattering. Check out number 9.  Bloody kids!

1. Mr Mark Swain. Loving your book, you’re one amazing man with an astonishing family. T.D.James

2. I'm just reading your amazing book, the Lao Lao sneeze incident really made me laugh! Mark Rhymes

3. Just finished reading this book and it 'twas fab. Lots of laughing out loud and interesting moments. Thanks Mark Swain for sharing your journey xx   Tracey Davies

4. Friend from college (art college, back in the day) wrote a book about cycling from Ireland to Japan with his 18 yr old son. It's fab! Inspiring me for future cycling holidays with boys, but not to Japan!  Larraine Rettie

5. Hi Mark, Finished the book;
I have experienced so much reading it although I have never owned a bike! – The descriptive writing and relationship between you and Sam made for a very good read -
· I laughed aloud with the drunk getting caught having a piddle by his missus!
· I got hungry every time I read – proper food!
· I was astonished at some of the places you stayed
· And couldn’t believe the ‘risk’ taken when cycling along, going down waterfalls etc..
Brilliant!   Ian James

5. A friend recommended this to me, and WOW. I couldn't put it down!
Not only could I relate to my relationship with my father, but can also see how this also relates to me and my children.
You find yourself wanting to know what is around the next corner, how they will cope, and will they see the next day, let alone the end?
I suppose the only question is where will they go next? I for one will sign up for the Japan to Ireland book if it ever came off.
I would recomend this to anyone, grab a copy and enjoy. There is something in there for everyone! Thanks. Richard

Highly Recommended. Bought this as a stocking filler for my partner and he couldn't put it down. I have never known him to talk so much about a book before. He is a keen cyclist and also has a grown up son so he could relate to everything that was written in the book. This is much more than a story about 2 guys cycling to Japan (his words not mine). Helen

6. The author of this book has created a masterpiece - engaging from the first word. I did not get bored at all. The book also has pictures and beautiful maps so you can fully engage in what is going on. Would recommend.  Lopez

7. Excellent. Well written, honest and compelling. A real adventure that inspires the imagination. The descriptions of physical challenge and emotional reflection combine to make this a great example of travel writing. David H

8. Fantastic Read. Not the type of book I usually read but I really enjoyed the book and the different perspective from Mark and his son Sam. Made me want to visit some of the locations and avoid others at all cost. Tracey.D.

9. A good read. Thank God this man was not my father; he would have driven me mad. A very long suffering son. Steven

10. Excellent! A psychological, spiritual and philosophical, inspirational connection between father and son. When I read the book, it almost felt like someone was speaking to me. His experiences are very well explained, I felt like I was living the experience. I would love to recommend this book to my friends, if only it was translated in French. I recommend this book to anyone, especially those wanting to experience the journey themselves. Veronique

11. I love reading guides but not many travel stories as I normally get bored pretty quickly. I just drift off to my own travels. However this was different. I loved the fact he had used such a good opportunity to share the adventure with his son. Such a long way and a long time, well put across, thanks for sharing. W.G.Skipper

12. Mark and Sam have written this book honestly and from the heart. It is a great adventure and kept me interested all the way to the end. I liked their honesty and found it refreshing to read about a man who so obviously wants to improve his relations with his son while also working on improving himself! La Lucy.

13. Read it, you will love it! As you follow Mark and Sam on their journey from the UK to Japan it is fascinating to read about the highs and low's that they come across along the way. I love the way that you read Marks version of what happened and then Sam's and how different the journey can feel through a different set of eyes. This is an insight into different countries and cultures and the great people that they meet along the way. It is a great read about father and son relationship as well as the trials and tribulations of an amazing cycling experience. An entertaining and interesting read for all. Linzi.B.

14. A compelling read. I read this book in one sitting, which is unusual for me, and found it quite compelling. Like some other reviewers have commented, it can be enjoyed on several levels. The psychological journey unfolds in parallel with the gruelling physical journey. Descriptions of the many locations were fascinating and memorable and real eye openers - especially when father and son stayed in less than glamorous lodgings! Their stamina and openness is impressive. Recommended reading! Veritas

15. Fascinating website Mark, I launched 1 child (now 40) and have 2 teens to go... you're my new hero:) Seeley James

16. Something for everyone. So far, this is a great book! (I'm a third of the way thru'). Never a true word said using the phrase `there's something in it for everyone'; if you love to travel and want to learn a little about the countries they visited and locals they met along the way, if you love cycling (this book would equally be invaluable for those who choose an engine instead of pedals!), if you want to do the same kind of journey (with or even without one of your offspring!) and if you're a dad, (my son is 8 months old and I have much to learn. At times reading this book, it also made me reflect upon my relationship with my own father, which may not be a bad thing), if any of the above strikes a chord with you then give this book a try.
One of the messages I have taken from this book so far, is that if you're a successful businessperson with a loving family; who `says' you can't take some time out for a journey like this, it's what life is all about.
It's fascinating to read what goes thru' the minds of a dad and his son during the long hours on the road and to read about how they deal with all sorts of challenges on route, it's as interesting to read about how they deal with all the `good stuff' that happens too.
It's extremely well written and has a nice helping of humour along the way, I feel like I'm on the journey with them, both physically and mentally, I'm looking forward to the next country! Colin.

Monday, 21 January 2013

Thank You India – Memories of Cycling in Paradise

Back in October 2008-9 my 18yr old son Sam and I reached India. It was an overwhelming experience. The busyness as we cycled along the potholed roads, the crazy traffic, the friendly people smiling at us from the roadsides, the smells of delicious food and the stunning views. We were immediately in love with it.  After three months of often strenuous cycling throughout the country, Sam and I were sad as we left Calcutta, heading for Thailand. Four years later we still think of those three glorious months. The people, the culture, the food, the countryside and the sheer variety that is India will never leave us.

I won't try to tell you here about all the wonderful things we experienced cycling through India. I'll leave that to the book. It took three chapters to do it justice! But in case any Indian readers look at this blog, I want to say a big thank-you and that we wish you and your wonderful country well.
N.B. There are many more India photos in the book & the e-book (see link on right), plus on the original travel blog: www.bugbitten.com/father_son_cycle


Wednesday, 9 January 2013

1,968 Free Downloads in 3 Days

A promotion of the Kindle version of LRHL on Amazon last week resulted in an astounding 1,968 free downloads of the e-book. This may sound crazy to some, however, it is a surefire way to get things moving in the Kindle store. and to introduce the book to new countries. Downloads were received in Japan, India, Germany, France, Spain and the USA as well as the UK. In the day since the offer closed 19 paid for e-books have been downloaded. We expect this to continue to grow. Not so crazy eh?

The big advantage of the Kindle platform is that as well as being the most reliable and easy to use device, people can download a Kindle App free from Amazon, enabling them to read Kindle books on a PC, Mac, Laptop, i-Pad or phone. That's why I've decided only to publish on Kindle (in addition to paperback) in the future. Let's hope they stick to their tax promises though. Not that any of their competitors are any more generous of course.

Watch out for a new book of short stories by Mark Swain coming in the next few weeks. Might even be a free promotion on that too.


Saturday, 5 January 2013

Free Kindle version for 3 days


As a little New Year's present to his friends, Mark Swain is making the updated e-book (Kindle) of Long Road, Hard Lessons available for free download for a period of 3 days.
This book is currently rated 5 Stars by purchasers from Amazon.

When?  For 3 days from Sunday 6th January

Why?  As a token of appreciation for those who have bought the paperback and because it helps to get things moving on Amazon's Kindle store.

Any other requirements?  Yes. We would ask you to please put a review on Amazon (Kindle version) for the book when you've read it. 

Also -  Please send the link to all your friends so they can benefit too.

Just wait until Sunday 6th January, then go to the Kindle version of the book on Amazon and you will be able to download for free.